Where awe comes from

The eight wonders of life

When researchers gathered stories of awe from people in 26 countries, the same eight sources kept showing up. Together they make a map of where wonder lives.

One map, many cultures

Dacher Keltner and his colleagues at the University of California, Berkeley collected thousands of awe stories from people around the world. Different cultures told them in different ways, but the stories sorted into eight categories. Keltner calls them the eight wonders of life, and they are the backbone of his book Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life (2023).

Some of these wonders are big and rare. Most are hiding in an ordinary week.

1 Moral beauty

Original artwork: at dusk, two people on a small pier release glowing paper lanterns. Hundreds of warm lights drift up into a violet sky and shimmer on the water below.

Other people's courage, kindness, strength, and ability to overcome. This was the most common source of awe in the cross-cultural study -- and over 95 percent of these stories involved someone acting on behalf of others.

Where you might find it

  • A stranger who stops to help without being asked
  • A nurse, teacher, or caregiver who goes far beyond the job
  • Someone who rebuilds their life after a huge loss
  • A friend who tells the truth when it is hard

Notice it

Today, watch for one act of goodness, even a small one. Let yourself feel it instead of scrolling past.

2 Collective effervescence

Original artwork: a crowd in silhouette, some with arms raised, watches gold, teal, coral, and violet fireworks bloom together across the night sky.

A term from sociologist Emile Durkheim for the electric feeling of moving in sync with other people. When a crowd breathes, sings, or cheers together, the boundary between "me" and "us" gets thin.

Where you might find it

  • Singing with a crowd at a concert
  • A stadium roaring at the same moment
  • Dancing at a wedding
  • A community coming together after a storm

Notice it

Next time you are in a group that moves or sings together, notice the moment you stop feeling like one person and start feeling like part of something.

3 Nature

Original artwork: green and violet curtains of aurora ripple across a starry sky above dark mountains, mirrored softly in a still lake.

The wonder most people think of first: storms, stars, oceans, mountains, animals, and the endless detail of living things. Nature can be huge, like a canyon, or tiny, like the veins of a leaf.

Where you might find it

  • A night sky away from city lights
  • Thunder rolling across a valley
  • A hummingbird at a feeder
  • The first green shoots after a fire

Notice it

Find one natural thing you can see from where you are right now -- a cloud, a plant, a bird, the light. Look at it for one full minute.

4 Music

Original artwork: a Chladni pattern -- golden grains of sand gather into an intricate symmetrical web of curves on a dark square plate, the shape a sound vibration draws when it makes the plate ring.

Music can lift the hair on your arms and bring tears without a single word. Some of the most common body signs of awe -- chills and goosebumps -- show up again and again in music.

About the image: when sand is sprinkled on a metal plate and the plate is made to vibrate with sound, the sand gathers into shapes called Chladni patterns. It is sound you can see.

Where you might find it

  • A song that shaped your teenage years
  • A choir hitting a big chord
  • A live band locking into a groove
  • A lullaby someone once sang to you

Notice it

Play one song that moves you. Close your eyes and do nothing else for the whole song.

5 Visual design

Original artwork: thousands of glowing gold and coral dots spiral outward from the center, arranged by the golden angle -- the same pattern seeds follow in the head of a sunflower.

Art, architecture, and patterns -- human-made and natural -- that stop you in your tracks. A cathedral ceiling, a great painting, or the perfect spiral in a sunflower.

About the image: each dot is placed at the golden angle (about 137.5 degrees) from the last. Sunflowers pack their seeds the same way.

Where you might find it

  • A bridge, tower, or building that makes you look up
  • A painting you could stand in front of for an hour
  • The spirals in a pinecone, shell, or sunflower
  • A beautifully made tool or object

Notice it

Look closely at something well designed near you -- a staircase, a chair, a book cover. Ask yourself how many decisions went into it.

6 Spiritual and mystical awe

Original artwork: beams of sunrise light pour down through gaps in heavy clouds over a calm sea, with a bright path of glittering light on the water.

A feeling of connection to something sacred or transcendent. For some people it comes through religion and prayer. For others it comes through meditation, silence, or a sense of oneness with everything.

Where you might find it

  • Prayer, worship, or sacred music
  • Meditation or deep silence
  • Light pouring into a quiet room
  • A feeling that everything is connected

Notice it

Sit in silence for three minutes -- no music, no phone. Notice what fills the space.

7 Big ideas and epiphanies

Original artwork: scattered stars are joined by faint blue lines into a branching constellation, and one golden star at the center flares brightly -- the moment separate ideas suddenly connect.

The moment something finally clicks. A scientific theory, a mathematical proof, a new understanding of yourself, or a single sentence in a book that reorganizes everything you thought you knew.

Where you might find it

  • Learning that you are made of atoms forged in stars
  • Finally understanding how something works
  • A sudden insight about your own life
  • A conversation that changes your mind

Notice it

Learn one thing today that genuinely surprises you. The Wow Facts page is a good place to start.

8 Life and death

Original artwork: an old branching tree stands in silhouette on a hill against a golden sunrise, while dandelion seeds drift away on the breeze.

The beginning and end of life -- a birth, a death, the long arc of growing older. These moments are some of the most profound people ever experience, and they often bring awe and grief together.

Where you might find it

  • Holding a newborn
  • Being present with someone at the end of their life
  • Seeing your parents in your own face
  • Watching a child become an adult

Notice it

Think of someone who came before you and made your life possible. Spend a minute with the fact that you exist at all.

Your own map

Which of the eight wonders show up most in your life? Which ones have you not felt in a long time? There are no wrong answers. Most people find that one or two wonders are their "home base" -- and that the others are waiting for an invitation.

Try it

Write down the last time you felt each wonder. If you cannot remember one, that is your invitation for this week.

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